Differences

I know a few people who read my blog. After that, I haven’t a clue. In fact, I was talking to Rory from our town and she told me of a friend of hers who discovered this philosopher in St. Marys – me! I got quite a chuckle from that one. She may be reading this right now.

When I am writing this blog, I am putting my thoughts out there for all to see. I found out early in the game that no matter what I write, everyone will not agree with what I say.

Take for instance my article, The Mirror of Death. It is one of the first ones I wrote. If you haven’t read it yet, go the very beginning of my blog. It also appeared in a weekly newsletter sent out by Bob Proctor’s group. I always include my email address so people can reply directly to me. I received over 250 emails on the weekend after it was distributed. Every one of them told me how it helped them get through a rough moment – except one. She tried to tear a strip off me for writing something that seemed so cruel to her.

I have tackled other subjects that are more controversial that I know people don’t see the same way I do.

I learned long ago that if I spend my life trying to please everyone, I will be wasting my time.

What is important, though, is how we handle our differences. How do we treat each other when we disagree?

What I have learned is that it is important for the dignity of both persons to be preserved. If either one is lessened, then the difference has not been handled well. Everyone is entitled to his opinion, and that includes me.

So, do you disagree with some of my thoughts? Let’s get out a pot of tea, light some candles, speak softly to each other and discuss the issues. Let’s make the effort to explore our points of view. We both may learn something in the process; even if it is that understanding the other person is all we get from it.